Morning musings over coffee

Good morning :)

Sitting here sipping coffee while my sweet sir deals with crazy kids. I hear his deep voice getting them to calm down, finish their breakfast, and let mommy finish waking up.

We've had a busy, stressful, but nice last few days. It's kind of always like that lol. Busy, running around, but still enjoying the crazy part of raising these little rascals.

Yesterday I was stressed. I started to lose my patience a bit, and Jackson grabbed me firmly and swatted my bottom a few times. I stopped and he hugged me. 'Sweetie, I think a spanking may help me calm down.'

Him: 'oh, I was planning on it.' Sexy wink...
He sternly tells the kids we will be down shortly, and gives them an order to start getting ready for our day.

He locks our door.

He brings me to the master bathroom, and bids me to strip and get in position. I've noticed he's grabbed what I've deemed the 'sbd' implement. Silent but deadly. Hahaha...

He gives a stern scolding 'you will be calm today.'

'Yes sir.'

Swat.

'You will be respectful to me.'

'Yes sir.'

Swat, swat, swat....

His voice... Sexy, calming, reassuring.

I hear the swish, I feel the sting.

My whole body calms and I feel myself being grounded and focused. I feel the release of emotion as I submit to this man, knowing he will not allow me to lose my patience, and he will be with me every step of the way.

He leaves me stinging, subdued, and very happy. He pulls me in, and I feel the warmth and strength of his embrace.

He then tells me to take some time and relax and he will bring the kids outside to play.

We plan out our day, and I marvel at what a blessed, lucky girl I am.

Mary's musings

Welcome!

Hi there! How exciting… My very first blog post!  Allow me to tell you a little bit about me and my love, and what my hopes are for this blog.

My name is Mary.  My husband Jackson & I are very happily married. We have three spunky, beautiful, amazing children! I’m a working mom who adores her job, and adores her children. We are very involved in our town, our family, our church. We have been blissfully married for 12 years, and we are head over heels, madly in love with each other.

We are very open people. We enjoy engaging in all kinds of varied activities, and I’m sure I’ll blog about our eclectic tastes and pursuits.

The point of this blog, however, is for me to be able to talk about the part of me that most people don’t know about- our domestic discipline relationship (DD)

What Is DD?  The basic principle  of DD encompasses a dominant as the leader (the Dom or hoh if you will). The Dom has a sub who consents to obey him, and accept discipline from him if she does not. This can vary quite a bit, but almost always involves spanking. Kinda 1950’s housewife… With a modern twist. Each relationship will be unique and that is part of the beauty of it!

Why follow this type of relationship? For us, it was a gentle progression, starting with BDSM In the bedroom. I will get to more on all of that another time.

Jackson is my hoh, my Dom, my leader. He is everything to me, from his gentle blue-grey eyes to the strong hand holding a strap…

I am his submissive. I AM HIS. I’m a strong, intelligent, working mom… I keep our house running and activities organized.  I have a professional job, that can be fairly stressful (but I love it!) sometimes, the stress of life just gets to be too much. Sometimes I want someone else to make the decisions. Sometimes I want someone else to take the reigns and hold me to a high standard, be there to keep me accountable and punish me if I misbehave! He does… And it’s beautiful.

This blog will talk about us… Our DD relationship, our toe dippings into the BDSM world, what makes us tick.

I have to go for now, but I look forward to spending some time sharing a story and a cup of coffee with you.

-Mary 💖

at Is DD?  The basic principle  of DD encompasses a dominant as the leader (the Dom or hoh if you will). The Dom has a sub who consents to obey him, and accept discipline from him if she does not. This can vary quite a bit, but almost always involves spanking. Kinda 1950’s housewife… With a modern twist. Each relationship will be unique and that is part of the beauty of it!